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Nov. 30th, 2010 07:57 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Crusty Curmudgie McCrankypants sez:
It really irritates me when PMS is portrayed as a likely reason that a woman is cranky; it also really irritates me when, as a joke, women on PMS are portrayed on a murderous rampage.
For one thing, there are PLENTY of things to get legitimately angry about. I don't have to have PMS to be pissed off.
For another thing, whenever I do have PMS (which was ages ago, thank you birth control) I get melty and weepy and so do many of the women I know. PMS may also translate into being snappish; but really, is a woman getting angry such a rare and surprising thing that being snappish is seen as a short step away from a violent maniac?
And this joke often comes from female comics, or other people that in all other ways are extremely progressive.
Anyways. I think there are probably a lot of my friends who could care less, or who think these jokes are very funny, but they always leave Crusty Curmudgie McCrankypants feeling a little sour.
I am leaving comments on, but I am about to embark, starting tomorrow, on a week and a half of winter concert craziness, so keep in mind I may not respond to comments until the weekend after next.
It really irritates me when PMS is portrayed as a likely reason that a woman is cranky; it also really irritates me when, as a joke, women on PMS are portrayed on a murderous rampage.
For one thing, there are PLENTY of things to get legitimately angry about. I don't have to have PMS to be pissed off.
For another thing, whenever I do have PMS (which was ages ago, thank you birth control) I get melty and weepy and so do many of the women I know. PMS may also translate into being snappish; but really, is a woman getting angry such a rare and surprising thing that being snappish is seen as a short step away from a violent maniac?
And this joke often comes from female comics, or other people that in all other ways are extremely progressive.
Anyways. I think there are probably a lot of my friends who could care less, or who think these jokes are very funny, but they always leave Crusty Curmudgie McCrankypants feeling a little sour.
I am leaving comments on, but I am about to embark, starting tomorrow, on a week and a half of winter concert craziness, so keep in mind I may not respond to comments until the weekend after next.
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Date: 2010-12-03 05:36 pm (UTC)Maybe it's a good thing for people to joke about how their thoughts and feelings are governed by their physical body, but not when the underlying message is this "men are rational and women are irrational" BS.
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Date: 2010-12-26 07:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-12-26 08:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-12-26 08:22 pm (UTC)