It was a very strange article in general, but I thought the message was that women's aggression can be intimidating. How is that the same as saying it's a bad thing? The article has an anecdote from a guy whose ongoing relationship helped him overcome an incident of ED, while the guys experiencing ED seemed to get it during spontaneous hookups. I'm pretty sure the pressure to perform is greatest the first time. Also note the use of "some guys." Not every guy wants or can handle a sexually aggressive woman. Other guys would never get to have sex without them. I bet the latter group is pretty grateful.

You're overreacting.